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What about my gender?


Question Posted Wednesday November 6 2019, 1:20 am

Thank you for reading my question.

I am just confused and will like some help on gender identity. Here we go….

I have been assigned the gender of a girl, but I don't always feel that way. Before you start to think "Transgender?", let me get to a point.

For example, one day I feel feminine. I look in the mirror and I absolutely love my body. But the next day I look in the mirror and I hate it so much. (Wait, I'm not done yet.) Then the day after that, I look in the mirror and I don't really care. As in, I don't feel feminine or even masculine. That was just an example. Each feeling could last a few days at the most.

Sometimes, and this just makes it more confusing, I want to wear makeup while wearing a tomboy outfit. Or even the other way around. I want to wear a dress, but no makeup.

This might seem like normal, but I am just very confused on my gender. I think I have one, but sometimes I feel like I don't. But I know that I'm not agender. Please help me.

Thank you so very much.


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Epiphany730 answered Thursday February 20 2020, 4:18 pm:
Bravo/Brava!!!!
You're not confused at all. :)
You recognize that your topic IS referred to as a consciousness on the topic of gender identity.
Perfect! :)

May I ask... if it's possible, that you, too recognize if your thoughts are also real and/or "does" occurs in a gender identifiable way too?
I ask because it may co-assist with supporting you and your decisive recognition(s) too....

There are yet no hard points or hard lines that make whom one is attracted to clear either, so try not to be prone to fitting somewhere on that "categorical;y" just yet. It is supposed to be desirable adventure as in: external orientation and sense.

Additionally, I sense some "maladjustment" in your word-use of "assigned". I hope you laugh some times too about such.

In a small point, you seem to "give attention" to being the assignment you're saying you are; with a "contrast" of being "not either" masculine.
Does your "feelings" ever match with an "appetite" for gender specific "things" too on such days?

and/or

Are you (additionally & actually) having co-existing, interacting "moods"..., "towards" or "away", from common, generally-identifiable "feminine or masculine"-identified things?
Is peer socializing "equal" and/or comfortable to YOU?
It's a considerable, available adjustment that IS (at least, some time or another) changeable, which could be helpful if that it a goal you'd like to accomplish...

Because of my use of the word "mood" (as a reference; ergo not definitive), I wouldn't based normality on anything BUT "normality". And if still concerned, would choose to fit myself, where I would experience "lessened" confused identification then.

Does this post categorically "help"?

My aim at your message is to attempt such.

~ Please Write Again :)

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