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What could it possibly mean??
I’m 30 years old and in a relationship with a guy who’s 24 for almost two years now.. i never saw something the puts me in a doubt or our relationship in danger, because he’s so fond of me and i could see it from his actions... except that time that i saw him texting his ex which we got it through .. but i think I started to have the trust issues now because of that because she was his ex and they were seeing each other , of course his explanation was that the girl won’t let him go .. we passed that . At least that’s what we think...
I went through his phone this morning, i saw he was talking to his best friend and his friend studies abroad, so it was like this.. “ if i were in your place right now I would’ve explore the country, the culture everything ... from party to another, I would’ve fuck different girl everyday if i had that chance right now, to live alone for a while i would do it without even thinking” so this is a little disturbing for me it’s more of a disgusting... I don’t know maybe it’s something that he didn’t live that part of his life fully that it’s still inside of him,, or he’s not committed or I don’t know....
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What people say, and what they mean or are thinking can be different. For example, he could be saying all that to impress a male friend saying what he would be doing. Men tend to talk sex talk in ways that can sound serious but half the times they are making it all up, know, men boastly about their sexual prowess. then on the other hand, perhaps this is a deep down wish of his though he would never act on it in real life and lastly, theres the chance this is something he's wishing for himself and may try his best to see it happen.
If you do not have trust in him, then I've read that the main reason is usually the guy isn't showing the girl in ways she can understand that he is so in to her that he could never be interested in anyone else. I have such a husband. But not all men are like this. If this is what you want, then all you have to do is look for consistency in a man. Something in which they are consistently doing the right thing, or con sistently doing the wrong thing, cheating, breaking trust, not being open enough and telling you things so you don't have to come across them yourself and feel you have to ask questions. If a guy doesn't consistently have the kind of behavior or traits you want, then he's the wrong guy for you, no matter how cute, hot or wealthy he is. If you feel there is great reason to doubt him right now, then either you aren't picking up on the fact he is devoted to you only, or he's doing a bad job of showing it. You'll know if it is you if you are truly honest with yourself. If its him, then its best you leave him. If married, I'd suggest couple counseling but you are only dating and most non married people do not go for therapy, they just break up and look for someone new
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