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What about my gender?
Thank you for reading my question.
I am just confused and will like some help on gender identity. Here we go….
I have been assigned the gender of a girl, but I don't always feel that way. Before you start to think "Transgender?", let me get to a point.
For example, one day I feel feminine. I look in the mirror and I absolutely love my body. But the next day I look in the mirror and I hate it so much. (Wait, I'm not done yet.) Then the day after that, I look in the mirror and I don't really care. As in, I don't feel feminine or even masculine. That was just an example. Each feeling could last a few days at the most.
Sometimes, and this just makes it more confusing, I want to wear makeup while wearing a tomboy outfit. Or even the other way around. I want to wear a dress, but no makeup.
This might seem like normal, but I am just very confused on my gender. I think I have one, but sometimes I feel like I don't. But I know that I'm not agender. Please help me.
Thank you so very much.
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I think you might be overthinking this whole gender thing. Don't concern yourself over this kind of thing too much. For example I am a guy and many times I have looked in the mirror and thought to myself I look really good and at other times the complete opposite and there are times when I just don't care. I think you are thinking far too much about what gender you fit into instead of just focusing on what makes you comfortable.
If you want to wear a dress and no makeup - do so. If that is how you feel comfortable on that day then why not. The same for all these other variations you've said. You can dress up as a tomboy and still wear makeup if that's what you feel like doing. Stop worrying about what title you fit into and just do what makes you happy. The whole thing about gender identity will come to you when it is time. Perhaps you are still figuring it all out and that's okay. It took some of my friends (who went from female to male and vice versa) many years to work out exactly who they are. Just don't concern yourself with it for the sake of it. When you know you will know but from what I can see (from what you have said) it's perhaps something you are still working out and trying to find your footing. Just remember that in my opinion gender identity doesn't make who you are. Just be yourself and everything will fall into place and you'll soon know who you are.
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