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What about my gender?
Thank you for reading my question.
I am just confused and will like some help on gender identity. Here we go….
I have been assigned the gender of a girl, but I don't always feel that way. Before you start to think "Transgender?", let me get to a point.
For example, one day I feel feminine. I look in the mirror and I absolutely love my body. But the next day I look in the mirror and I hate it so much. (Wait, I'm not done yet.) Then the day after that, I look in the mirror and I don't really care. As in, I don't feel feminine or even masculine. That was just an example. Each feeling could last a few days at the most.
Sometimes, and this just makes it more confusing, I want to wear makeup while wearing a tomboy outfit. Or even the other way around. I want to wear a dress, but no makeup.
This might seem like normal, but I am just very confused on my gender. I think I have one, but sometimes I feel like I don't. But I know that I'm not agender. Please help me.
Thank you so very much.
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Hi There! Sorry it has taken me so long to respond. I didn't have access to my account for awhile and finally got back to it!
In case you still need advice: this can be pretty normal. It depends on how deeply you feel. (Let me explain).
Growing up and even into adulthood, I have gone through phases where I want to dress as a 1950s housewife and phases where I want to be a goth androgynous being, but I've always known that I am intrinsically "woman".
Yours seems different in the fact you aren't willing to completely marry yourself to a gender of "man" vs "woman". In a way, you could be gender fluid, which I find very cool.
Not to be personal, but do you find yourself more attracted to men or women? Either way, do you see yourself as more of the masculine presence or feminine presence in the relationship?
I look forward to hearing from you!
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