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Thanks for the advice about dealing with the situation about telling my brother about losing to the girl. It actually wasn't at school were the fight took place, when I said "high school drama" I ment just general teen misunderstood drama which lead to the fight. It all happened so fast, she just shoved & punched me & came after me in a skirmish grappling around for a min or so until she landed a couple more punches then it was all down hill from that for me. I couldn't even stand up for about 5 min after she was done with me. But yes I'm mainly just worried about seeing her again & being in a awkward situation in all especially if my brother finds out about it and I'll have to explain what happened. I'll for sure tell him I didn't fight back but I think she'll tell her brother (his teammate) that wasn't the case & that she legitimately beat up in a fight. Of course like you said as long as there isn't any footage of it I can just deny It, but it still has me feeling uneasy about the whole situation. Hopefully if he does find out maybe he might not care much about it as I think he will.
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Also, if her brother wasn't there to witness it, he can't know either for sure. What you can do is take some classes on self defense or just working at a gym to gain more strength. Men who will not hit a women when she is swinging at him will avoid her swing, block her fists and lastly, pin her to a wall or the floor so she can't move to hit him and he'd let her know he will release her when she calms down. Self defense classes will help you to avoid a hit by ducking or sidestepping once a person is getting going. Knowing how to block a persons fist without actually using force to hurt them is good too. I am thinking some basic martial arts but I wouldn't really know much about where to learn all of this.
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