|
Am I weird
So I know this girl and we both went to highschool together. I've always admired her and I wanted to be friends with her but I was always so shy and when she did talk to me I'd come off stand off ish because I felt self-conscious of myself. Over the years after high school I kept bumping into her at random public places but we never said hi or anything because I guess we were never that close. Anyways this year, my bf got into dentistry and surprisingly the girl also got into dental hygiene at the same school as my bf. So occasionally I would see her at events and stuff and the other night I was so drunk that I came up to her and hugged her .... Ive been feeling so embarrassed ever since and I can't help shake off the feeling that I came across weird. Unconsciously I feel like I'm trying to find ways to be her friend but I feel like I'm coming across weird and obsessed. It's like fate keeps bringing me and her together..is this weird? I feel self conscious. How can I stop feeling this obession of wanting to be her friend? Based on this scenerio, if you were the girl and a girl you knew of but weren't close with hugged you at the bar would you be weirded out?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Well at the bar i expect weird things to happen because everyone reacts to alcohol differently. She might not have even really cared.
I would message her on facebook (or social media of choice) and just say something like "hey, i know we went to school together and keep running into each other, maybe we could get lunch sometime and hang out? and see what happens from there.
I doubt she thinks you are being creepy. I'm betting most of it is just in your head and she hasnt even noticed.
Best of luck!
]
More Questions: |