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My Aunt invited me over for Christmas !
I am 29 year old female and I got a facebook message from my aunt dot that I have not heard or seen from since I was 12 years old and she invited me over for Christmas dinner. The thing is my dad died when I was 12 and I have not heard anything from them since. We live in the same town yet no calls or visits in 19 years then out the blue she calls and wants me to go to their house when I haven't heard from them in 19 years . I feel like something is up like she and my uncle both want something other than me eating dinner with them . Am I wrong for feeling this way? I simply declined the invitation by simply saying I will be eating dinner with my other aunt that dau ,but thank you for the invite without being rude. I just want to know am I wrong for feeling like my aunt and uncle are up to something ? To give you a bit of an idea of what kind of people they are . The day after my dad died they cleaned out his house of all his possessions and didn't leave me with anything . Not even his pictures !
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It is possible that know they are getting upwards in age that they want to correct past wrong. I agree you did the right thing in turning down the dinner invitation. To see what there true intentions I suggest you call them and see if there is a time you can stop by for a short visit. It appears they may have been offering an olive branch. Offering to visit with them will satisfy your curiosity. A short visit in mid-afternoon allows you to leave quickly if it is not an olive branch they are offering or stay for dinner if offered.
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