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Should i move on or.....
hello, So i'm 25 F. I was in a relationship for about 5 years. A very happy one until it got a little toxic by the end. I started dating someone new. For about 5 months and we ended things on good terms. It was a mutual breakup. My ex of 5 years wanted to meet up and talk once I was single and the convo started off really bad but by the end of the night we were laughing grabbed dinner and coffee and sat in the car talking for hours which is exactly what we used to do when we were dating. Recently we were hanging out and one thing led to another and we ended up having sex. Now this became a routine. thing once or twice a week, he calls me all the time to see how my day is going, we grab dinner... Although he keeps saying we are friends with "benefits" when i went to an event with someone the next day he was asking a whole lot of questions for someone who always says he doesnt care about what I do. That same day i sent him a text letting him know that although this is all that it us between us I do still love him despite what he thinks. He texted me back saying my words dont match my actions. When literally that same night i was out, so was he and he kept posting all these pics with other girls when i never dit that. So I guess my question is.. What shoud i do? Should I just move on and leave it as is, and I dont really understand his thought process. Because we arent dating but it almost feels like we are. Help pleasee
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I hate to say this but I think hes using you.
If I were you I would leave him. If you love him so much you can't leave him , you guys need to talk about how you feel and don't hold anything back that you fee that you need to say. He needs to know fully how you feel, because if he doesn't know how you fully feel the "relationship" won't get any better.
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Break it off with him. And I mean really break it off this time. Be as extreme as you can, because last time you broke up with him, look how that turned out. And I mean, extreme. Block his number and all social media. When you see him, run the other way. Refuse to talk to him. It might seem rude to you, but this is best for the both of you. I'm guessing if you don't do this, he'll keep coming back, and you'll be stuck like this for a long time. It might hurt for you, but he's being a real prick, and you don't deserve that. Mourn that lost relationship, let it fade, and move on with your life. You'll find the right guy for you eventually, but it's obviously not him.
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