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He says it’s alright
I’m moving further away from him. 4 hours drive. We broke up about 9 months ago but still we’re good friends. However, when I jokingly asked him if he was coming to visiting me, he said yes, I won’t mind visiting you. And I told him, no no, you don’t have to though but he insisted and said yes, I don’t mind visiting you so what’s he implying here? Is it a good thing or a bad thing?
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It is both. It is good because you will still get to visit with him as friends, although not as much as before. It is a bad thing for him as far as the increased gasoline bill.
You don't explain why you are moving away. If its for college, then in a few years, you may be back in town. However, keep in mind that status with friends can change as we personally change as people and become different enough from the friends we used to be so that we have little in common. I've experienced that with all the girlfriends I had in high school. He is not implying anything. Men don't have as convoluted over thinking ways as females. He is simply saying, that the long drive, extra gas is simply he wouldn't mind doing.
If you are hanging in there hoping he will change his mind and want to go back to a romantic relationship at some point, don't. If he has already realized there isn't enough chemistry to make this work as something more than just friends, and he meets another gal while you are away and this gal is jealous of him having a female friend, especially one he used to date, then he may not be visiting at all if that happens. If you really think something else is going on in his mind and since you and i are not mind readers, the best way to find out is asking what he meant when he said, " and here you repeat the exact words he said or the whole conversation'. I think you still hold hopes for him as more than a friend or you wouldn't be reading anything into it as being good or bad.
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