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Do Scorpios guys come back once they split up with a girl?
Please don’t answer if you don’t believe in horoscope. We both are Scorpios but he was born in end of October and I was born in November. He split up with me because he said I kept pushing and pushing but he said we’re remain friends. He says he can’t give me things I want, I asked him if he will be jealous but he said he won’t because the new guy will give things that he couldn’t. He hardly texts and sees me once a week nowadays and we do make love when we see each other. Do scorpio guys fall out of love quick? He don’t say he loves me anymore as we’re friends now but always calls me pet names like darling, hon or baby like he used to call me when we’re going out. I still love him and I know he loves me too but he don’t show much. We were out for only few months and gotten really close and now nothing. What do I do? I do love him. In our early 30’s. Thanks
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I think you may be referring to Astrology which is the system by which our personalities and who we are, are measured and true astrology relies on more than just your Sun sign, which you mention is Scorpio for him. I know someone who dabbles in astrology and have looked up details for me on a computer program for astrology. So also relevant is the place of birth, to the city or closest city in the world, and time of birth. It includes moon sign and many other things I couldn't begin to name as I don't have that background and training.
The reasons you stated for the break up are issues that more often than not, apply to couples no matter what their signs are. He obviously values you as a person if wanting to remain friends.
His citing that he can't give you the things you want is a valid point. It is something I try to explain in a document I've written on how to find Mr. Right or Ms. Right. This will explain how to make lists, taking notes of what traits you want and which you don't. It also covers what is a deal breaker quality which is a person doesn't have them, they are not the right fit for you. Apparently, he seems to think there are things about him that are not right for you, because they are not part of his personality and character. He may be right or may be mistaken. You however can't help explain to him unless you understand fully how to navigate this area of learning what each of you need and want. Need and want are two different things also explained in this document. If interested, go to my column and write to me from there, its the only way I can answer you again. If as you say, you love him, then it seems it might be a good idea to discover if he and you are truly on the same page about things that are important enough to matter to you. In case he is mistaken about what he insists he can't give you because he is picking up on things that are not really the issue, then its best to learn more. It is more habit that causes a person to use pet names or endearments, even when no longer together, especially if the two still care about each other on a friendly basis. It does not necessarily mean one is still in love. My 2nd husband for example has an ex wife who is a very needy person and all alone in a remote town as well. SO she calls sometimes because she is upset and needs someone to talk to. He will naturally call her hon or baby, same as he would his daughter when catching up with her. I know he is truly in love with me due to the lists and the things I told you about in how to find Mr. Right. You asked for those believing in astrology. How about belief in God because I got that info I am talking about from God when I was considering looking for a mate after a divorce. I was older and knew more what I want. YOu're the perfect age, at 30 is basically when people get to the point they decide what it is they want in life and decide who they really are and no longer want to live up to an image of who parents, friends or socially told them to be. If you do write me, refer to this as the horoscope message so I know who I am talking to. Blessings to you.
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