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Boyfriend says you’re very raunchy!
Hi my boyfriend of 4 months day, you’re very raunchy in bed and very loud in bed and I love it. What does he mean by that? Is that a good thing? I mean we do love each other and known for a year before we recently started to date also he talks dirty with a lot, says he’s trying to get me into positions that we’ve never tried before. Not me but he sends pictures and says do you like that I can do that for you to please you. He’s 29 and I’m 28. A very nice boy. So guys explain please what’s he saying. I mean we both love sex very much he loves it as much as I love it. Thank you all!
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I was about to open with the same sentence as Adviceman until I read his, so 'ditto'.
I am a female and I don't believe its a one sided thing meaning only a guy would say it and a female wouldn't. But as he shared, I also wouldn't use raunchy to describe my husband in bed because I am also older and of two main meanings of raunchy, the one it meant in my time was disgusting and nasty. However Urban dictionary seems to catch lots of the new or most used meaning for words that have other meanings and new words younger people now use. So if you go to the link I've posted, you will see the votes of people as to how many more use the word raunchy, to mean horny, sexually exciting or explicit. So he used the right word for his age group. But what is most important is that he said 'I love it!"
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I personally would not use the term raunchy in regards to my girlfriends sexual ability or our sex life. Then again I'm several decades older then the two of you.
I think what he is saying is he loves what you do for him in bed. That your not a strictly missionary girls and that you don't mind getting down and dirty in bed with him. The use of the word dirty is a good thing meaning you will try different positions and maybe different fetishes.
I believe what he is trying to say is that he is enjoying the sex life you two are having.
In my day at your age we where all YUPPIES. What we looked for in a women to make our wife and please pardon the expression was. A women who was a whore in the bedroom and Mrs.. White Bread outside the bedroom. The only thing that has changed today is the expression. "What happens in the bedroom between two consenting adults stays in the bedroom." The operative word being consenting.
My advice: From what you have written I would say you also are enjoying your sex life with him so take what he said as a compliment and continue to be the raunchy lady for him.
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