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calling baby and using fascinating means he loves me?
Hi, we’ve been dating for 2 months and he has started to call me baby and darling but he uses baby more often. Also, he says you’re a fascinating girl. What is he trying to say? Is this a positive thing to a good relationship. I mean we have said I love you to each other even though it’s only been 2 months of dating. So, calling baby and using fascinating means he loves me?? We both are in our late 20’s. Cheers everyone!
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I would just ask him. Why do you think I'm fascinating?
Baby and darling are just a pet terms for someone you care about.
Being called fascinating isn't negative. But if you want more information as to why he feels this way, just ask.
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Next time he says you are fascinating or interesting, or any description that is not detailed, just ask, "So what is it about me that you find fascinating?" This is not fishing for compliments but actually trying to learn how another person thinks and how they really feel which is important in a relationship. I don't know anyone who writes but often use hon or dear. So it can just be what a person uses to let a person know they are really listening, paying attention or that we care. People use endearments for many reasons. Using babe is a natural one for someone you really like in a relationship. It does not mean he's ready to commit long term or anything more like marriage. I can't read minds and neither can you so the best thing is to always ask. Heck I've been with my 2nd husband over 8 years and he'll say statements that I could just accept as they are or ask what he means by it. An example, "You have been very helpful to me." I can take that as a compliment and leave it at that or ask him, "So what is it that I have been helpful with." Then he'd go on to tell me specifics like when he is running late, I've already warmed up the car, helped him find his keys, etc... If you want specifics and want to know how he finds you fascinating, just ask. If a guy says that much, they will be glad to give you the details if you ask.
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