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he is not interested in me
hi :) i know for he doesnt like me or is interested in me bc two years ago i confessed about my feelings to me and he rejected me , he said he doesnt want any relationship right now, and ever since he rejected me there has been this awkwardness between us ..he just doesmt talk to me
like if it was me who hurt me but it was hi.who rejected me...he likes other girl in my class(her name Mikaela, bu she rejected him, she only wanted to be a friend with him..and he does talk to evryone in class but me(there is 38 of us in class)...and when he kind of hugged me ...it happened when we were saying goodbye to each other when we were.coming home from trip (there were.also ither girls from class , he also hugged them...i was thinking about telling to school counselor bc i cant stand watching him everyday at school like everything is ok between us..i just cant stand him ignoring me bc it hurts me so much..i've done nothing wrong to him...and you suggest i should talk to him ? no way! i want stay as far as possible from him..i also removed him from my friends..and yes he did tried to talk to me it has been really long time ago since we talked together
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Well, when I don't have enough information, I can be led to believe something different. What you shared just now tells me that he isn't into you and just being scared to make a real move. Then you shared about this Mikaela that he was into you but I hope you didn't skip over the part that she did not want him as a bf, whether she has one now or not. He just doesnt interest her in a romantic way. That's called chemistry dear. It is largely based on a persons pheromones and that is something you can not change in yourself. Let me put it this way. Lets say you have an identical twin. Both of you are into this guy. We already know he isn't into you, but maybe he finds he has chemistry with your twin. So thats to let you know, its not based on your looks but something else. A persons personality plays a part, having things in common. So two identical in personality people could have the same issue, one has chemistry with him and the other doesn't and again, that's because of pheromones. Pheromones are what the animal kingdom has to attract mates, they actually catch a scent of the one who becomes their mate. Humans are unable to pick up on the scent. All they will know is that they simply have no romantic interest in someone. Try to imagine meeting a boy who kisses you and instead of making your heart somersault, it feels gross, like a romantic kiss from your Dad or brother or a guy who you don't have anything in common with.
You don't have to believe me. I know it doesn't sound fair but this isn't age related. Til the day we die, there will be people who meet you and instantly like you or not. And thats everyone, not just a significant other but students, teachers, co-workers, neighbors. Its not possible to be friends with every single person you want to be friends with, they have a choice too. Same for relationship with a guy. If you need ways to get past this and simply changing your thoughts isn't good enough, then talk to your counselor so you can learn how to move one.
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