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How to find out if my teacher is mad at me?
I became head prefect of my school last night and a lot of the kids in my class became jealous and started being rude. It didn't really bother me but I started realising my favourite teacher seems off towards me. I don't know if I'm being paranoid but it feels like she's mad at me for something and I don't know what. It sucks because shes my favourite teacher and she used to really like me and said I'm a poster child and everything and it's really bothering me. I don't know why I'm upset about it because she's just a teacher but I care alot about what she thinks because she's like one of my role models. How do I find out if she's mad without actually asking her?
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My guess is that you are already on the defensive and questioning the actions of classmates because of their reaction to you getting that position. you must know that they are jealous and wish it was them. If someone else had won they would be treating that person the same way. a true mature adults reaction would not be jealousy and treating you badly because of it. that is only the reaction of immature people and younger people still have to learn how to deal emotionally with this situation in a proper manner. your teacher is an adult and so has n reason to act like the students.
Perhaps some personal life troubles are affecting your teacher and the worries of that were showing on her face. Adults do no think like young people.
If she is your role model, then she must be because her behavior too is great. Don't think the worst of her. you are overthinking this. Forget about it. If you cant you will have to say something to her and ask if she noticed the others treating you differently since you became head prefect. Wai for her answer. Then like a side comment, only if you still see an out of place expression on her face you could say, "By the way, is everything okay with you. I thought i didn't see you looking happy the other day or the past few days, and since you're like a role model to me, I was concerned." This way she doesn't have to share details but simply say yes or no and also lets her know why you asked. Whatever she answers, at the end you can then say, "And every things good between us, right? (but only if you want to ask). That way sounds natural to ask if already asking how she is. If a teacher is angry at a student, they don't hold it inside like a kid would, it is their job to let you know when you have done something wrong in tests or in not following a rule. So if she hasn't come and talked to you about a problem, then she is not angry.
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