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he doesnt care about me at all
hi :) thank you for answer :)
its true, i still have some feelings for him, but i kinda got over him (i know it doesnt sound like it , but i did)...i jusu asked the question bc i got sad bc its our last year in high school and i would like to spend more time with him as FRIEND...but as i said, im invisible to him , mostly im so angry with him bc he just passes by me , looks at me and nothing ...im so angry with him bc he is always near the girl classmate he like , and im angry bc he probably doesnt care that it may be hurting me , nothing...im.so jealous that he is giving all the attention to all girls in my class, like i meant nothing to him
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Sorry I didn't understand you correctly. It's no fun though feeling angry when things don't go the way you wish. I remember feeling that way myself many times. However I did learn to 'own' my feelings.
What that means to me is that any feelings I have, are strictly generated by me, not given to me by someone else, meaning no one can cause me to feel a certain way unless I choose to be happy, upset, bewildered, etc by something anyone else does. It's a basic principle of psychology. You can do the research and search for articles on "Own your own feelings' and here's one such article that came up if interested.
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I know this won't make the situation change for you. Guys need time to mature and stop being so shallow and fickle when it comes to finding a female they want to be with. Even then, once matured, it still comes down to a persons personal taste in character, etc. of a person for a friend or more. If you weren't picky about who is your friend, and others weren't either, then you could be best friends with every single person in your school. Thats not how life works. Don't worry, I don't think anything bad of you. I was like this too. It's a tough part of growing up and learning some of lifes basics.
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