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What is every nerd's dream girl?
Kind of a random question for this site, but I've always wondered.
With the question, I mean body, appearance, personality, interests/hobbies, etcetera.
(I'm not changing who I am, I promise this has nothing to do with it. This is just a question I've always wondered.)
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Maybe give some free advice about: What does it mean??
To make sure we have the same understanding first of what a nerd is, I am going by Wikipedia's explanation: A nerd is a person seen as overly intellectual, obsessive, or lacking social skills. While television has portrayed nerd types as scrawny instead of brawny, intelligent instead of dumb, socially inept instead of being a social butterfly, people tend to first think of a nerd as socially inept, mentally attractive but physically unattractive. I have found that often to be untrue. It isn't a good practice to label yourself or others for the very reason that there are too many exceptions to any description or label. I can state that my current husband and bf before I met him were both nerdy types. Husband considers himself one. I discovered last bf was an IT person, very intellectual but neither of them have a hint of lacking social skills. That proves you can't judge a book by it's cover or title. If a guy is a nerd, he is not going to be an exact copy of a dozen other nerds. Same as any artistic type, scholastic type, agricultural type, etc...there is going to be to each guy than a label.
So what matters most is what just you as a guy like in a woman. As a child already, my 2nd husband had a mental image of what he longed for someday in the body type of whom he would marry. He had no idea who and 1st wife wasn't the one. I am though. But that is his personal taste. There is so much to any individual, what they believe in, what they stand for, their brand of morality, how they treat a woman, etc... that there is no way I could tell you what a nerds 'dream girl' is.
However, if you consider yourself a nerd or others have called you that, and you are wondering what kind of gal to date, sorry but that is only a question you yourself can answer. I can help though. Usually women are asking how to find the right guy. But the document of instruction I have go's both ways and applies for men too. So if you are male, a nerd and want to discover and have a list of the qualities you best be looking for in a woman, then write me back, let me know you want the instruction on to find the perfect partner/mate, and I will give it to you. It's what I used to find my 2nd husband after a divorce. Because of my choices of what I knew I needed, I ended up with the most wonderful husband and lover.
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