Hello adviceman49, could I ask you a question about me and my guy friend. It's on the topics, has he started to have feelings for me? He said he's going to miss me while I'm away for a month, says he will miss me and it's weird, I said why, your phone is weird (coz he was playing his phone while he mentioned that? He said yeah right looking at me. Why would he add it's weird part?? Said I'm going to miss you, are you going to miss me? I said yes of course. Praises me, you're cute and beautiful. Also said, I've never met a person who's similar and compatible to me and said You do understand me don't you. Don't deny that you don't like me he said, I replied, course I like you. He touches my arms and hands but not in disgusting way, told him you love to touch me yeah, he answered but you love me to touch you, don't you or you don't fancy it? Unfortunately the things is we both have a gf and bf. But I'm thinking at least he must like me slightly and myself like him too. He also says we're good friends but why go and saying things like this? Complimenting me and you're cute and beautiful. Thank you adviceman49. I'm sorry for a long message but I could do with your advice please. Do you reckon he's genuinely serious about me?? Thanks a million.
For one thing their is information missing that would help me in deciding how to answer this question. Most importantly your ages. If I take this question at face value I am thinking you are two young teenagers and this could be a first love for both of you. IF I'm right I have an entirely different answer in mid. Not being sure and not wanting to insult you or hurt your feelings I will keep to generalities.
In general when someone say I will miss you it is acceptable to believe that person has some type of feelings for you. The difference in types depends on who says this. A parent o child leaving home for an extended period is one type. A BF/GF is another type but not the same. Both have feeling for you. Your parents definitely love you where in you BF may only lust for you.
I wish I could give you a better answer I just don't have the information to do so. Maybe you should write one of the ladies on this site the younger ones may be able to give you a better answer than me. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
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