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He's asked if he has a chance with me?
Hello adviceman49,
thank you for answering to,' what does he mean if he asks do I have a chance with you' question but unfortunately I don't understand your answer as it seemed like you were answering about period and pregnancy. therefore, could I kindly ask you to reply the question one more time, please?? looking forward to read it. thanks a lot.
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Sorry about that It happens occasionally when my eyes are irritated, damn hay fever.
I believe you pretty much answered your own question. "Do I have a chance with you." It is a question I might ask or maybe back in the day when I was your age I might have asked of girl "Friend" I might have wanted to date to see if a relationship could be had.
The reason for the question in my mind is once you go down the road from friendship to relationship; if the relationship doesn't workout you lose a friend and a girlfriend. Hence the question "Do I have a chance with you." Meaning are you interested in me in the same manner I am interested in you.
I lost two very good friends because I once dated a girl that became his wife. In high school we were all very good friends. I date his now wife he was dating another friends sister and so Forth. On Friday or Saturday night we would find a parents house where one of our parents were out for the evening and split up into different bedrooms.
It was nothing serious with her for two reasons the most serious on was I was not ready for college and would be going into the Air Force after High School. The Vietnam war was raging at the time and I did not want anyone sitting at home waiting for me.
While I was away they started dating and two years later when I was in the Philippians' I received an invitation to their wedding. Of course it was not possible to get there as it cost a fortune to fly to the east coast.
When I returned home I was invited to visit with them. The friendship the three of had was no longer there. Partly because of the different experiences we all had in the four years we were separated. Mainly I believe our friendship was ruined because a guy who was my best friend for years believes I slept with his wife before him.
The best way to ruin a friend ship is to loan them money or to have sex with them. My advice her is if you do have feeling look at long term rather than short term. Is he someone you would like to spend the rest of your life with. If the answer is not then your answer to his question is no.
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