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What kind of guy would say you know, I'd do anything for you?
Hello,
Ok here's my story, please be honest because I'm thinking of asking if he likes me for real or just friends. He's kind and good friend of mine. Never says no when I asked for his help. Few months ago we went out for a few drinks only for a decent few hours but we always have lunch together when we are at the college. Get on well. Tease and joke back and forth. Anyways, the other day, I asked him if he could help me with my project again and he was ever so willing said,' by all means, you know I'd do anything for you, anything'. However, recently we're in his car as he was dropping me off and I asked him for a few favours, he was like of course, you should know I'd do anything for you. Same phrase only few times recently. So, what do you reckon?? Could this mean anything or nothing at all? I do fancy him but I'm so scared to ask him. Sorry guys, it's long. Appreciate all the input.
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My first impression is that some one raised him right. It's hard to find males who would be willing to help a female with anything, even if asked. I usually see this more often in the older males rather than the younger ones. It could be that he's into you and thats why he'd do anything for you. But a real telling of his character is if he'd do the same for any female close to him like his mom, a sister or female cousin, aunt. It's even more telling if he'd offer his assistance to a female not as close like a neighbor who truly needed help. I remember the time my husband helped the neighbor lady put her clothesline back up so she could hang laundry to dry. She didn't even ask, he just saw the need.
Since you have been friends already for a year, a good way to find out how he feels, just friend or with romantic feelings too, is to ask in a way that you do not reveal how you feel but gives him a choice to either say he has only friend feelings or to grab at the chance and start dating you. This guy already likes you alot simply because males need to feel needed by females and so asking for their help is a big thing to them. Since you've asked for help before, that caught his attention. He could very well be interested but heres what to say to find out for sure with out risking losing the friendship.
"I was just thinking that we get along well as mates, so I am curious, wondering how we would get along as 'more than friends'. What to you think?
That last part is important. You need to ask his opinion. Since the question is about checking to see if you could be romantic together, he will quickly let you know if he doesn't feel that way at all. If you say you already fancy him as more than a friends, the stronger feelings could scare him. Guys are afraid of having to deal with an upset crying female if he has to tell her that the love isn't felt in return. SO leaving that out will make it easier for him to say yea or nay.
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