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What does, 'I'm all yours mean?' Can it be used among all sorts of situation per se between friends and in romantic relations? My friend flirts and teases and he has used this sentence twice. But when he says this it feels like he's saying in a romantic way coz I could see his clear flirty face. Thank you
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Your womans' intuition is probably correct that he is flirting and doing so because he is into you...more than just a friend.
The thing that gets sticky is when two people who are good friends have their feelings change. they still like the person as best friend but the romantic feelings that weren't there before, now are. Would you mind if this male friend became your boyfriend? If you have feelings for him too, or at least would like to try, there is something you can say. The reason he may not have said something more direct to you is that friends in this position are afraid that if they share how they feel and their friend doesn't feel the same way, that the situation of unrequited love will always feel too awkward and it might break up the friendship.
For him to say 'I'm all yours' sounds like he is offering himself to you. Its what people say when they may have a busy calendar but they are needed somewhere and they clear their whole schedule to be available to do the task at hand and let the other person know, 'Okay, I'm finally all yours, at least til the end of the day.
Unless you were asking for help with a project and he answered that, my bet is he wants to be part of your life as more than friends. Do you just smile and say nothing when he says this? Thats not the best way to find out what he's getting at. So just ask him if he has ever thought about you two being more than friends. He can say yes and you ask him for details, or no, and you leave it at that. Or if he asks why you asked the question, you can say you came to that conclusion due to what he said.
If this is a phrase he says all the time, then its just a part of how he communicates for certain things But you said he's only said this twice recently. He is looking for some kind of positive response from you that lets him know for sure you return his feelings. Guys are just as scared of rejection so this is what many of them do. Some guys don't want to come off as pressuring a girl to make the next step, from friends to dating, or to hand holding, kissing, etc. And so there are some guys who will not make the first move or at least the only move they make is to introduce themselves as my 2nd husband did in dating site. Otherwise, I had to make the first move for it all, kissing, sex. but once I did and he knew I chose him and wanted him, he had no problem initiating things between us. So its up to you whether you let things be or ask him out as a date. But you must specify you are asking him out not as a friend but a date.
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