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Mate says you're special!
Hello,
Just curious, does special have any particular meaning when used between two friends? I always thank him when he calls me special and unique, not all the time but he still does. I tell him very kind of you to say that. I'm a girl plus I feel like we've known each other for ages and reality it's only a year. I have a feeling that he must like me. He seems to be cheerful when he sees me. He's more touchy feely when we're alone. Winks at me here and there. Now, I do like him but little hard to know what he's thinking actually? Help guys! Thank you
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When it come to having interest in someone, males and females are pretty much the same. So let me ask you a question with roles reversed.
Lets say for the past year you have hung out with a guy. You tell him he is special and you are touchy feely with him, all to give him clues how you feel about him.
Now heres the biggie: Would you do all that for a guy you are not interested in? Would you do that for someone you do not even like, or a guy who gives you the heebie-jeebies? If you were trying to find the male whom you could enjoy as a boyfriend and hopefully more, would you waste your time acting like you like them as a friend?
I know that every single woman wouldn't dream of doing that for fear it would encourage the guy to ask her out or even try to kiss her. We don't as humans even spend time with people who we wouldn't like as friends.
So if you wouldn't do that, why would he. He is still around because he is hoping for some kind of clue from you other than being polite and thanking him, that you are interested in him also. He may be looking for a girlfriend. being friends first is a good way to go because some of the most successful long term relationships start off as best friends and the romance is added later. Romance and being each others sexual equal is just as important. Most people only find a best friend or a great lover but not the two in one person. If you would like to date him, then encourage him somehow or straight out ask him if he'd like to go on a date, not as friends but as a couple.
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