[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? Dragonflymagic answered Wednesday July 12 2017, 5:12 pm: If female, the easiest is to masturbate the clitoris which is external. There is however the G spot which is easily reached by inserting a finger and is on upper part of vagina in front of the urethra and with something like wrinkled pruney skin in front. This skin when stroked just right will expand with blood much as a males penis expands with blood. This makes it more sensitive and gives a feeling like you need to pee but that means orgasm in coming as long as you don't resist thinking you will pee. Best thing to reassure oneself that it isn't pee is to empty the bladder fully before starting masturbatuion.
I have more to say if you are female, recent studies have shown that ALL women who have orgasms do ejaculate. However there isn't always a fluid to see to confirm this. There is a small tube that forms for some in utero and not for others. Those who have this tube connecting to their bladder will have their ejaculate empty into their bladder. Those without will find the extra liquid empties out through the walls of vagina and comes gushing out. This is referred to also as women who can squirt. The thing is, men ejaculate once and then need to recharge. Females as long as the stimulation keeps going can ejaculate as many times as they want to without waiting.
I also recommend looking for how to masturbate if female and you may want to search under clitoral masturbation or G spot masturbation. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
adviceman49 answered Wednesday July 12 2017, 11:54 am: Since you do not say if you are male or female my advice is as follows.
If your a girl you do not ejaculate but you do orgasm through masturbation. When you do your vagina will secrete a lot of fluid. This secretion is not considered to be ejaculation on males ejaculate.
If you are a guy and wish to ejaculate with out having intercourse then you must masturbate as well. This is usually referred to as Jerking off. You can use a search engine and type in either male masturbation or how to jerk off and you will get a large number of returns as to how to do so.
The same is true for females just type in "Female Masturbation how to."1
While there is nothing wrong with masturbation, it is actually very healthy as it relieves sexual tension in a safe manner in the privacy of ones bedroom or morning shower. The key word here is "Privacy."
When you decide you need to masturbate you want to do so in private in a place where you won't be disturbed or intruded upon. In your bedroom with the door closed and locked or your morning shower or evening bath with the bathroom door closed and locked. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
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