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Hi,
Now this might sound a little bit of a silly question but I gotta ask. Is it important to be friends with a girl before he starts to have a proper relationship or is he just casually wanting to get to know her better first and looking to have a possiblity of starting of something? Says we're friends a 'lot' a 'lot' but I say we've only known for a weeks. Very lovely boy though. Both are at uni.
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I don't think this is a silly question. Truth is it is the question not asked that is the silly one for then you don't have an answer to something you question.
My thoughts on your question are. You start out as two strangers in any relationship. In order to move that relationship forward you have to get to know one another and become at the very least friends. Once you are friends then the two of you can discuss and decide in what direction you wish to take your friendship.
In the case of a romantic relationship things that you need to learn are how compatible you are as a couple. The more things you like as a couple the more stable a romantic relationship will be. In the things that are individual likes can you learn to like the others or at the very least tolerate them so they can be enjoyed as a couple.
This is why you get to know someone first, be come friends then a couple and enter a relationship if you two are a good fit.
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