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You're bossy, he says!
Why does a crush says you're bossy for a girl and you just love to boss people around, don't you. The thing is I don't think I'm bossy but I'm initiative, I tell him. Yet even though he calls me bossy he always help me helps me with a smile. Sometimes I feel like he loves me to boss him around. We work in a same place. Guy, does he think I'm a bit of a too much coz I like him and we just banter well. He also says, we're pals, I said sarcastically no, we're just a colleague and he says, yeah yeah...Thanks
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If he says this quite often, then perhaps there is something he either likes or dislikes about it. I can't say why. No can really can unless they are a mind reader. You may have to ask more direct questions, none that can be answered with a yes or no, so you can get more details. I would guess it doesn't really bother him or else he would not 'come back for more' lol. If a guy doesn't really like something about a girl, he'll just avoid her. Guys aren't into drama, that's why. Besides, he said you're pals and so he's not put off by your personality or characteristics in any way. Your answer of we are just colleagues may confuse him. He may be trying to find out how you feel about him. Do you actually like him as a friend. (an important first step) and step 2 is usually wanting to know if there is a chance to become more than friends. Professing feelings or crushes you already have may still scare a potential bf/gf but it is good to start as friends and then ask the friend is they are willing to try to see if you can do well as more than friends.
I wouldn't worry about his words used such as bossy. He may have a limited vocabulary and just not know of a better word to describe what he sees in you. Since he smiles often, I'd say that whatever he is thinking of a trait of yours, its more complimentary than not at all. Next time he says we're friends, pals, buddies, you could say, yeah, well even work friends can choose to get together other times than see each other at work. So how interested are you in me as a friend. Would you want to hang out on the weekend? (Or what ever example you want to give him.)
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