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I like him but does he like me?
Hi ya,
We were having a ciggie outside after a lunch. It was windy and chilly and he asks are you cold coz he could see me saying I'm cold. I was standing few feet away from him and smoking and he would say, why are you standing that far, stay closer to me. Why don't you come closer here to me so that you feel warmer I said no you wish. We'd both burst into laugh, he would say to me you're bossy. We have been friends for a months and we have a boyfriend and girlfriend. I do feel like he likes me but then he could be joking because we do joke a lot. Any thoughts? Thanks
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It doesn't seem like it. I mean joking can be flirting but it doesn't have to be.
To me, since you both are in a relationship it just seems innocent. I wouldn't think too much into it.
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There is nothing in that conversation that stands out as him trying to let you know he has feelings for you. It is what it sounds like, friendly chatting and teasing. Teasing is not flirting but so many hopeful single girls interpret it that way. If you were a girl and the other girl is interested in you, you might get a really round a bout way of being given clues, vague, hints that could mean just about anything. But if we are talking about males, if they like you, they pretty much will say so if asked. They may not think to tell you, or not want to if they are not sure how you will receive the news cus like anyone, guys don't like rejection either. However if you ask him if he is interested in you, then likely he will say so. But since he already has a girl friend, he probably isn't into you. Just because a person is in a relationship does not mean that they can't tease or even flirt harmlessly with another person. I am female and no matter that I have a wedding ring, other guys might tease, flirt or be a gentleman getting the door or helping me in other small ways. Its called being a gentleman, or chivalrous which means being courteous, considerate or gentlemanly. And while one would hope that a man who does exhibit this behavior means something more,, that he has feeling for a female, he better behave that way. However in most circumstance, a guy who offers you his coat or to shield you from the wind with his body is merely being a normal gentleman, chilvalrous.
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