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Does he have a crush on me?
Hello there, didn't know and never noticed before but recently when my friend was taking to me he just blushed during our conversation that he looked away and looked back, blinked, maybe he was gazing at me for long while we're talking but his face was red and I was left wondering, this is new, eh, as we're both straightforward. But I dot get it. I'm thinking maybe he has a crush on me or likes me? Or something there in his head? Thank you.
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I think your question was just as much about his change in behavior as it was wondering if he's crushing on you. It may look strange if he's always been comfortable with you as close friends. However, once the love bug bites, a persons behavior will change. They still see you as the friend they get along with so well, but now the feelings are deeper, more romantic. This is always a hard transition for those who have been friends a while without the romantic feelings. Its really bad when one has the romance feelings and the other does not. This of course means there's no chance of becoming a dating couple. The person who has the deeper feelings may not wish to tell their friend for fear of losing their friend once they declare their feelings.
Some statement or questions can be worded in a way that does not make the other person feel so awkward, especially if they don't have the same feelings. SO if whats said is kinda open ends asking the other person for their opinion, they can still answer and not feel bad.
So if you like to try being more than friends with him, pretty much, that's what you say. "We've done really great as friends. It makes me wonder if things would work out if we tried being more than friends." then lastly its important to ask his opinion. "What do you think?" He should feel no awkwardness answering a potential change that is not based on you being in love with him already, this way of asking portrays you as still a friend but a curious friend.
It allows him to answer with confidence and confess right then that he has feelings for you or just a simple agreement that yes you both should try dating and see how it goes, when its what he wanted but didn't know how to make the transition.
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He might have a crush on you. He might have just gotten embarrassed about something.
Ask him about it in a casual and private way. When it's just the two of you hanging out be like, "Hey, I was wondering, do you like me as more than a friend? Sorry it it's embarrassing, I just would really like to know."
If you like him, tell him so. If you like him but don't want to date him, make sure this is clear.
Good luck!
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