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Gender: Female Location: Orion, Illinois, USA Age: 16 Member Since: March 9, 2017 Answers: 4 Last Update: March 10, 2017 Visitors: 424
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Hello there, sorry it's bit long, I was having a chat with my friend, told him I've missed him as I hadn't seen him for a week, he said,'he didn't miss me,'turned bright red and laughed, he kept having that nervous laugh, I said sarcastically no, why did you have to miss me, i only missed you because you help me with my projects, he then said,'of course (says my name) I've missed you too, I said OK, he then smiled. Also, there were few other students at the college at the time among us, he accidentally used my name when he was talking to one of the student, he said sorry to the girl, he then turns to me and says, see, your name is always in my mind with laugh, I said, I know, I can tell, we both looked at each other and smiled. We joke and tease plus he has a gf and I have a bf. Does he like me or is he just messing around? I'm starting to have a teeny tiny feelings for him and wondering if has the same. Any advice are appreciated. Thank you (link)
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Honestly, he surely might. However, don't go abandoning your boyfriend for him yet. If I were you, I'd see how things go for a little while and see if he keeps up this kind of attitude. If it really seems like he likes you (blushing, thinking about you all the time), then ask him about it.
If by then, you have strong feelings for him, tell him about it.
If you fall out of love with your boyfriend, it's best to tell him. If you don't like him, don't waste his time by keeping him as your boyfriend. Otherwise, it may be a good idea to talk to your boyfriend about this. If you trust him to not get jealous and that he'll understand you, you can get advice from him.
This other boy might really like you, but make sure you like him before you begin a serious relationship with him.
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Hi, a friend says I'm drove him mad and instead I said, no, u drove me mad over a situation that I called him Narky and he called me cocky. When we are having chat,he looks me in the eye, holds the eye contact for few seconds but turns red and smiles at the same time and looks away and looks back. I feel like saying, what's the matter, are u shy, the thing is he's not shy at all. I fancy him but not quite sure if he does. He lightly touched my shoulder and ran his fingers from my arm to shoulder and shoulder to arm while we're sat next to each other the other day. He recently started to give me a high fives and fist bump. I hear that's he's got a girlfriend. I'm 22 and he's 24. So, why is he acting like this? Turning red, saying I drove him mad?? we just disagree sometimes. Guys, any suggestions, please?! Thank (link)
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He's probably just teasing you, which could be a sign he likes you. He definitely does not think you are annoying.
In matters of love, it is best to talk to him about it. Ask him if he likes you. Easier said than done, I know.
Maybe you should do a little snooping to see if he has a girlfriend still. Try asking your friends or his friends if they know anything about it. You can say it casual like, "What was the name of So-and-So's girlfriend?"
If he does have a girlfriend, the next time he gets touch-feely with you, remind him about it.
In my opinion (this is just looking at the surface of your relationship) I would say he does like you. He definitely thinks of you as a close friend at the very least. Tell him how much he means to you and how thankful you are for his companionship. If you want to date him, let him know, even if he has a girlfriend. It's better to let those feelings out than in. And if he doesn't like you, than you can move on and just be friends with him.
Good Luck!
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Ok so I have this friend lets call her Sam and she has a boyfriend. She told me that she thinks she has feelings for someone else other than her boyfriend. She also told me not to tell her boyfriend because she thinks he'll get mad. But me being me I pushed her into telling her boyfriend. Now I feel like if I made things worst for them because they both look sad and they won't even talk to me. I only did it because I knew that the guilt would overwhelm her and if she told him it would be better. What do I do? I don't want them to break up but even worse, our friendship to fall apart. (link)
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Talk to her and apologize for pushing her to talk to her boyfriend but make it clear that you care for her. Explain to her that you want her to be happy. Her boyfriend and her might be having a difficult time so it might be a good idea to give her some space to think things over. Let her know that you will always be there for her and you want her to do what will make her happy.
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Hello there, didn't know and never noticed before but recently when my friend was taking to me he just blushed during our conversation that he looked away and looked back, blinked, maybe he was gazing at me for long while we're talking but his face was red and I was left wondering, this is new, eh, as we're both straightforward. But I dot get it. I'm thinking maybe he has a crush on me or likes me? Or something there in his head? Thank you. (link)
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He might have a crush on you. He might have just gotten embarrassed about something.
Ask him about it in a casual and private way. When it's just the two of you hanging out be like, "Hey, I was wondering, do you like me as more than a friend? Sorry it it's embarrassing, I just would really like to know."
If you like him, tell him so. If you like him but don't want to date him, make sure this is clear.
Good luck!
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