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Why was he allowed to live behind me?
I lived in Georgia at the time and still do. My dad died when I was 12 from a long term illness. He also also had mental health issues from what I heard from his family. They say I just have to overlook what he did because of his mental health . I don't feel like this is an exucse.
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You're right it is not an excuse and you should not overlook it. When this occurred 23 years ago parents had a different view on how molestation affected young children. Your mom and your adult relatives she may have sought advice from may have said just forget about it. Forget it happened and don't talk about it and you would forget it happened.
As we now know that is the wrong thinking. You should have gotten some therapy to help you understand what happened and to deal with it properly. The how and why of why your grandmother allowed your father to live so close to you I can't explain other than the fact his parole officer must have had to approve of it.
Talking with a psychologist as I have recommended will probably not get you the answers you seek but will help you deal with this question in a healthy manner as well as dealing with the molestation Your health insurance will cover part of the cost for the visits. in a better way than you are.
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