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Confused about my sexuality!


Question Posted Wednesday December 28 2016, 9:24 pm



I don't even know where to begin but here goes . I am a 27 year old female and I was molested by a family member when I was 5 . Unike most girls my ageage they started getting interested in boys when ther were 14 or 15 years old but I didn't start wanting to date until I was 17. I know a little odd. Then when I started dating engaging in sexual activities never really interested me. I didn't get my first or want my first kids until I was 18. I didn't start having oral sex until I was 23 and even then never really enjoyed kissing boys or being intimate with them but last year I started finding girls attractive and wondering what it would be like to have sex with a woman? I am also a little confused because i was taught that homosexuality is a sin. If this is true why would I feel like this? I am so confused. Please help me.


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adviceman49 answered Thursday December 29 2016, 9:01 am:
To start with I do not think you are a lesbian if you were you would have known this a long time ago. Doctors and scientist now believe you are born as a homosexual being it is not something you become. Personally even if you were a lesbian I don't believe it to be a sin it is who you are.

You say you were molested as a child. My guess is your parents felt you were young enough that they did not get you any counseling to help you through it. You need closer on the molestation and probable rape. I recommend you seek counseling with a qualified psychologist to put the molestation behind you and allow you to get on with your life.

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