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im confused
so im a freshman in high school and a girl,there is this boy i like about a month now and when im with him i really feel the feeling and he makes me smile and laugh and feeling in love in some way (because im only 15) but i never had the need of kissing him and anyway do such things with him and even though i want to be with him because im not sure but i thnik that he likes me too now that schools closed and im somehow away even though we chat via facebook im kind of confused about my feelings and i dont know if the fact that i feel proud of him and i know i like him in a romantic way but i dont have that need i dont know if it is good or not maybe it is because i never had a boyfriend before but i dont know if that has to do something with it please answer me
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Hi Hon. I don't want to jump to conclusions so I need to know a bit more. Some girls will write what you have and make it sound as if there is a friendship with lots of contact and convos but in reality it is all a crush and wishful thinking. I am leaning toward the fact that you both talk to each other but have no idea of what if anything else happens between you. So I really can't say with the info you gave whether there is a chance he may like you too. Chatting via facebook is good but isn't a very good indication if he likes you. You need to be thinking more of actions he takes, whether he purposely comes to stand near you, if he leans towards you fascinated when you speak or when he's talking to you, any gestures that could possibly be light flirting, watch to see if his feet point towards you or at an angle away when he is near, does he initiate phone calls or texts. In essense a lot of what will give us clues about another persons interest is body language, even to the point of mirroring any moves you make, like tucking hair behind your ear, and then he would touch his hair or ear in some way. It's all done subconsciously so most of us are not aware we are doing it. Hope this helps. But if you have more specifics and situation to run past me, I'd be glad to read and answer. Happy New year.
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