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I had sex with him and keep being friend. Possible or impossible?


Question Posted Sunday November 20 2016, 12:44 am

I have an old friend who lives far away and we've been chatting through messenger or other messaging apps for almost two years after i found him on facebook. Some months ago i visited his country (germany) for work (pleasure as well), we met and together for a view days. We made love on the second day and afterwards, eat, picnic, met his mom, or hanging out, etc. He always had plans and prepared for entertaining me, i am a guess after all. After i back to my home, we are still doing the chat until now. He calls me some endearment las usual. I've told him that i love him but i dont need us to be a special. Honestly i want keep him as a best friend and he seems okay. He doesn't tell me he loves me back either and i dont need that.

I've told my another friend about it and he said that it is completely impossible for us to stay friends forever. He will ask more than that, he said. What do you think? I am not seeking a relationship with him just very enjoying his companion and i dont want to change that. Please give me insight and what should i do to keep it this way


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adviceman49 answered Sunday November 20 2016, 9:57 am:
The fact that you two were intimate while you were a visitor in his country does not mean your friendship has to end. From what you have written it does not sound like you are looking for anything more than a pen pal style of relationship.

What I mean is you two are not going to be seeing each other on any type of frequent basis. The best type of relationship either of you can hope for is what you have. Make sure he understands that you want him as a special person in your life but that you have no designs on him for a loving relationship other than as a friend. Hopefully he feels the same way.

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