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i am 9 and i want to have sex. what do i do


Question Posted Sunday October 30 2016, 8:39 pm

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Dragonflymagic answered Wednesday November 2 2016, 8:26 pm:
You masturbate because at this age, you are probably ahead of most your peers, as far as puberty setting in. The fact that at 9 you want to have sex makes you an exception to the general known reality that people are not in puberty yet or far enough along in their sexual development of their bodies. So you may be the exception. Also, can't say this is true for you but in general most young teens are not ready for sex as far as being able to handle staying safe with condoms and for when condoms fail, birth control for the girl. Although planned parenthood has had programs where they work with teens in education and providing birth control. However I do not believe they work with kids your age. Its likely more at 14, or so but you could always call your local one and ask.

Another reason that there isn't anything but masturbation that works at this point is again your age and the fact that if anyone 18 or older were to agree to it with you, they would go to jail if or when caught. If any teen younger than 18 but lots older than you were to do this, it most likely would s till be an outrage between parents if another kid had sex with their 9 yr old.

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