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i need advice: likes me more than his other crush?
i dont know if my rush likes me more than his other crush.im 11 years old.im a girl.i am from Zimbabwe.
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I am from the US. So perhaps I am not up on relationships in Zimbabwe. I don't see what you need advice on since it's in your favor and some guy likes you more than another girl.
About all I can see is the other girl getting jealous and getting angry. However there are some things in life we don't have a control over and whether another person see's us romantically or not is one of them. About all we can control is how we react to it. And we can't have a good reaction until we really know the scientifics of what is happening.
You probably think it starts with boy meets girl and girl meets boy Or does it? What is it that makes you attracted to one boy over the other...his looks. But what happened to determine that you like his looks way better than all the other guys. If it was any other way, you could be attracted to dozens of guys all at once. Pheremones is invisible but something our body emits. It is the key ingrediant that c auses one person to notice another person. pretty powerful for something you can't see and at least not detect with your nose as far as you can tell.
People your age and older have wondered about all this for ages.
The best thing I can tell you for your age as far as relationships is to enjoy it and you can't enjoy it if you're always worrying. That was me as a teen, worried and anxious. At this age, boys are just starting to take notice of girls and their notice is usually more of a lustful one than the love filled one a girl hopes for. One can't at 11 or 16, 21 or any age have a successful relationship without practice on how to do things right and what to avoid and these things we all learn by j8st going through it. I can mention ahead so when you do see it happening you know you are on your way to your goal if you have one and I'd make it my goal to learn to understand boys better this year than last, and it can still be fun.
Approach your crush or any other boy you feel attracted enough to and like as a person and ask that male if he will help you to learn to understand guys better. They really do think and come to conclusions very differently than females and it is the cause of many fights and misunderstandings. So next time you hear some guy r epeat a line you don't know what it means, you go to your male friend, tell him the situation and what was said. Although everyone is unique in their personality there are lots of basics were having a crush for this posiiton may help. It gets you to a place of feeling less awkward handling yourself around guys. Another thing to keep in mind is that boys at the same age as you right now are newly discovering another toy, girls. The toys you liked most, you played with most. How does one learn what it is like to hang out with the opposite sex, by doing so. This includes everything. The bad point to all this is, in the end, wehn his defences are down cus he's not guarding as hard since you're just a friend, his senses could come down, and he falls for you. But keep in mind also that relationships in school rarely last a lifetime. After all how many women do you know today who are married to and have kids with their High school prom date. i don't know a single person and I'd be surprised if you did. Relationships at your age are more about quality than quantity. Its about the quality of what you learn to be able to use your whole life rather than how long you can make a relationship last.
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