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my classmate (boy) rejected me after i confessed to him about my feelings
im girl 17, im in 3rd year in high school... i told my classmate(boy) who is also my crush that i like him, in the concrete i gave him a note, saying i like him bc , i felt really relieved after i told him...two days later, i asked him to talk about it bc he didnt give any respond and i wanted to how he feels , during school (we didnt study , we just played games etc), i asked him if we could go and talk somewhere private , he said it is nice that i told him about my feelings for him, he repeated it 5 more times :D :D, he also told me that he know how hard it must´ve been for me to hide my feelings from him... then he said he doesnt have time for relationship bc he has activites besides school (he plays guitar, he dances)...and also he told me he firstly wants to develop more spiritually..(if that makes sense) bc we go to catholic church , ..and then he hugged me saying that we should continue to be friends and he told not to act nervous before him,
i deleted him from my friends on fb during summer holidays bc i was always checking if he is online...now is new school year and he found out i removed him from my friends on fb, and he texted me why i did that, and if he did something wrong he is sorry , i didnt answear, i told him in person i did it bc it hurts me and that i dont want to be friends, and he said it´s ok, i thought it would hurt less, but it hurts me more , i just dont know what to do ? i see him every day at school, we dont talk to each other, and it hurts me so much , what should i do ? he also sent me friend request on fb but i havent accept it yet, i would want to but i dont know if i should...should i ?...i dont know why but he keeps looking at me but i try to avoid eye contact with him
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Hey,
he may not be interested in persuing more than just a friendship with you but it doesn't sound like he wants to stop being friends. I'm sure you're hurt because it's not always easy accepting that someone you like may not like you back, but we can't force it. If you feel you need some time away from this guy in order to sort out your feelings, it's okay to let him know that.
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maybe he misses the friendship you both had and cleary you do also even though you two arent together wouldnt it be better to have him in your life as a friend then not in your life at all.... if you cant put your feelings aside then i dont see the friendship working but i think he will come around just talk to him and see if you can be friends again
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