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a guy say you playing with him What does it mean when a guy say you playing with me
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Most likely, whether true or not, he seems to believe that you are not being honest with him, two f aced, that 'playing' with him is much like the moves of card players, trying to look one way with your poker face while something totally different is actually going on. When females call a guy a player...same word again, what does it mean to you?
Probably the same as it does to all women, that he can't be trusted. That his behavior so far as been one of seeming interest in you personally and acting like they really want you in their life as a mate when they had ulterior motives, only wanting you for booty call. What it really comes down to is sex. A girl wants a boyfriend so she pretends she wants him for sex but then doesnt give it to him at all, for whatever reason, more often that she simply likes getting him riled up and then leaving him hanging, never going thru with it. Its called 'being a tease', or leading a person on. On the other hand, guys do this too, but instead of withholding the sex, they want the sex but are withholding the friendship and everything else besides the sex that a female really wants.
I have found that in some cases, what the younger generation mean by saying something, or what they believe a term or work to mean is totally unknown and afraid to ask, they just imagine or make up in their minds what it is. So I have explained to you the term. However I can't say that what ever is in this guys mind is the same as I told you. You would have to ask him what he means when he said you are playing with me. For all you know, to him it might mean, you are teasing me. ]
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