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I'm starting to have feelings for him
Hi, I need some help.
I am 20/f. He is 24/m
So there's this guy who happenes to be a friend of mine for a long time. He had feelings for me but I didn't feel the same. He asked me to be his girlfriend multiple times and I would bring up excuses for not getting into a relationship. The last time he asked me was last Saturday and I said I couldn't be his girlfriend. Our communication has decreased since then but even though I said I didn't want to be his girlfriend then I do now. I'm starting to develop some feelings for him and I don't know how to confront him about that. What can I do
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this is definietly a hard one. first thing i would suggest is telling him that you dont want to rush into a relationship and ask him to respect that. if he is a good friend he should be better understanding. But he needs to know that if he keeps pushing he is going to drive you away. Its not attractive to us girl when a guy is going to far. You need to have a talk with him and let him know whats up or it will effect your relationship. Just message him and tell him, i am sorry for the way i have been i am just not ready to risk our relationship. Even if you do have feelings now, i an tell just by the way you typed "starting to develop feelings" shows me that you are not ready. the reason he is getting distant is because he is confused and is unaware of what he should do. If he has been a good friend for a long time you should be confrotable with doing thiis.
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I'd say wait a little bit until you make sure of your feelings for him. If they get strong, then the best thing you can do is just tell him honestly. I mean, if he likes you back like you said, then there won't be any problem right?
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