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Help love is hard
Hi I'm Kendra I am a girl who is bisexual I've been talking to this girl and we got in a fight we never fought before I was really depressed and I got mad for no reason and said things I shouldn't have and now she won't text me back what do I do
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I think you should try to call her instead of just texting, or ask her to meet you somewhere, and apologize for your actions, and then talk it out between one another. I mean that's really all I have for advice, but I hope it helps!
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Kendra, if by chance you are a teen, then I would have to say that there probably is a good reason why you got angry. The hormones of puberty will affect a teen almost all of teen-hood. I had 3 girls with two at any point in time going thru it.
The hormones basically affect your emotins so you lose control of them. Its easier to make you sad or cry and why easier to irritate or make you feel anger for absolutely no reason at all. Knowing that this is the case, it helps teens to realize the ones they would lash out at are most commonly the females closest to us, like a Mom, sisters, friends, female teacher, etc... Tell her about the hormones and let her know the hormones got the better of you and you lost your temper because of them and now feel badly.
On the other side, the effects of hormones today on teen girls is a bit more extreme than when I was going thru it. Our world has so much of a ver sion of the synthetic female hormones in it that by time ones body starts releasing the hormones that start puberty, our bodies are already full of the hormones just from the envirionment so adding the normal ones of puberty puts you way over the maximum amounts and that can cause the simple sadness to become depression and anger to become violent, like hurting or killing tendencies. The problem is hormones being to high and Dr.s can test your hormones to see if this is the case and if so, treat you at least for just during the teen years so you can have a normal life back. Or just knowing that you'll be easily irritated will cause you to change how you do some things. Like when you feel like you're about to lose it, just t ell the friend you're with, "Hormone attack time, I feel like I'm gonna lose it. Please give me a couple moments alone. ANd go stand off by yourself, take several slow deep breaths counting with them if you prefer, close your eyes and imagine something that you find fun or lovely or relaxing, if your thought go back to dwelling on what made you angry, s top yourself and tell yourself that you are not going to think about it anymore, you're dropping it and order yourself to think of pleasant things and then rejoin your friends.
Being bisexual has nothing to do with what you are experiencing.
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