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boyfriend lied to me.
My boyfriend lied to me about this girl. I found that he poked her on facebook and when i confronted him about it- he told me he did it on purpose to see if i was viewing his activity log. I Told him that was childish and that he could have just asked me flat out- but after that i let it go and everything was fine. Then i found him searching her on his phone once and he told me he doesn't even know her and that he just wanted to show his friend someting-- so i let that go too. Then we got into an argument and went a whole day without talking and i see that he sent her a friend request both on instagram and facebook- and when i confronted him and asked him why he did that he said it was normal and i said if you dont know her then how is that normal? he then replied saying "no i do know her, but i couldnt tell you" and was being cold and rude. so i was like so you lied? and he sat quite and so i broke up with him. Its been 2 weeks and hes happened to turn the table making it seem like im the wrong one for leaving him- but its not the first time he lied about something and as i was breaking up with him i felt like it could also not be his last so i was trying to warn him- not completely cut ties. I love him so much but he isn't doing anything to help us get back together and blocked me out of his life randomly. I dont know anything about him for 2 weeks and ive tried to reach out to him twice but he just kept yelling and being mean to me telling me that i chose this and that were never getting back together. I keep feeling like its my fault for breaking up with him- but what did he expect? he lied to me and had no problem being blunt about it. =( how do i get over my regret. is there anything i should even regret?
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When you break up, all that is really important is that you are okay with your reasons. They don't have to be good enough for anybody else—including the people you break up with.
Was it a bit silly? Yeah. Both of you probably could have handled that entire thing a bit better.
But, why are you trying to contact him now? If you think he lied, repeatedly, then you need to be comfortable and confident in your decision, and stop trying to reach out to him.
You can't control what story he tells other people, or how he thinks or feels about the breakup. What you can do, is be true to your beliefs and choices. It's okay to feel guilty or regret, but the way to get over that is to stop exposing yourself to his anger and lies and to just get, and keep, your distance. He's got nothing to offer you now.
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