Ex blocke me off whatsapp during our heated break up but kept me on everything else? Facebook? Instagram? Even though he specifically told me if we ever broke up he would have no reason to keep me on his social media. He blocked me out of spite because I Hurt and left him ( he obviously did something to provoke it) but i wont get into details. If he just wanted to remove me from his life wouldnt he completely delete me everywhere? I mean, i have done that to a few of my exes when i was seriously DONE. but what do you guys think? he still searches me and goes through my stuff everyday (I know this for a fact) but it just makes me feel like he has some kind of hope we'll be together, and i actually hope so cause i do too..
katerinatomov answered Monday June 13 2016, 12:07 am: Well, if you're this curious my advice is for you to ask him yourself. Ask him if there is any possibility of you two getting back together (without sounding to needy, and excited about it, of course) just play it cool. be the person he fell in love with. X [ katerinatomov's advice column | Ask katerinatomov A Question ]
Dragonflymagic answered Thursday June 9 2016, 8:17 pm: Hon, I come from a different generation when we didn't have computers or cells and texting. We didn't have FB, Twitter or any on line sites where people could meet or keep in touch. My kids are probably in your age range or older and they all have cells and do text but they didn't get cells until they started working and could afford their own, So they learned first how to relate to people face to face and not rely so much on internet sites.
I know everyone wants to feel accepted and liked and that is important. Blocking out of anger tho is just another way that before the time of computers, a person would try to have the last word in an argument. They say what they know you most likely will react to in anger or after a convo that turned into a fight, block you so that you can not have the last word back at them cus they blocked you. Getting unblocked doesnt really mean the relationship is back on even keel. There is no such class as relationships 101 but there are many books that can be helpful. There is a right and wrong way to have an argument and there are do's and don't to basic relationship knowledge but sadly many people don't know about it so their best guesses and their best efforts always end up in blow ups.
I can't say wether this relationship is save-able. If you know him well enough to know how long he stays angry, give him enough time to get over it and then go talk to him in person and ask if he wants to find a way to make the relationship work or not. Generally people who hold grudges for too long do not make good relationship partners. We will all make mistakes in relationships but what makes them work is when we love the person enough to forgive and forget. So I guess you'll have to feel this out, whether to wait longer, try to talk to him or just move on. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
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