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So my gf Is bisexual and she tells people she is 52% gay and 48% straight. I am a guy btw. We have been dating for about 8 months and she has been getting kinda distant lately. she says she loves me too but I'm worried she isn't completely fulfilled in our relationship. I'm worried she feels like she's missing out on that 52% that maybe she prefers that 52% but I don't want her to leave I love her and don't want to lose but I also don't want her to feel like she's missing something or not completely herself. Idk what to do or how to talk to her about this.
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I know it's confusing, but it worth remembering that EVERYONE in a relationship is missing out on other people. Regardless of their sexual orientation, YOU are currently missing out on other women who may be different, or even more physically attractive to you than your girlfriend.
Being in a relationship means making the promise to not screw around with other people, who you may otherwise want to screw around with!
Being bi, doesn't really change that. Someone who wants to be in their relationship is going to be happy in one. Someone who doesn't want to be in their relationship is going to feel unfulfilled.
If you think your girlfriend is unhappy, ask her if she is, and why. Don't assume she's craving sex with women. That's not really fair. Maybe that is part of what is going on, but you have to ask her, and not assume you know what is going on in her head just because she's bisexual.
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The only advice I can give to you is to talk to her. In any relationship communication is key to success and this includes a sexual relationship. Especially one like yours.
You need to talk to her and find out is she feels she is missing something. Maybe there is girl she wants to have a strictly a sexual relationship with but is afraid of how you might feel. It is possible in the right settings for 3 people of different sexual distinctions to live together. Something you could discuss with your GF if your open to that.
This does not mean you get to have sex with the other girl unless she is bisexual as well and is sexually into you. What this does is allows you and your girlfriend to remain together and allows her to have her 53% as you as well.
This is something you would discuss with her if you want. You should talk with her as this is the only way I can think of to resolve the issue you have brought to us.
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