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I'm a mess!!!


Question Posted Sunday May 15 2016, 5:44 pm

I'm a total mess! I just don't know what to do anymore. I always year to see him, but whenever I do, it hurts me. He's constantly toying with me. He uses to his advantage the fact that he knows I like him. He always tells me thing he knows I wouldn't want to hear like he talks about how much he likes a girl, but he would never tell me who it is. Always making me say things I wouldn't want to say about myself. It just really hurts to know he would hate me that much that he'll toy with me. I just don't know what to do. I'm in a complete mess!

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Raychillicious answered Sunday May 15 2016, 6:10 pm:
You're in an abuse cycle with this person. You are worth more and don't need his attention. The longer you stay around this person the weaker you will get because he is feeding off of your attention and breaking you down at the same time. It will be hard but you need to break away from this person now and completely. It doesn't matter what he says to keep you around, it's all manipulation. If he had any kindness toward you he wouldn't do things that hurt you. Abusers find people who will tolerate their crap and then feed off of you until your a hollow,broken shell of a person. Run away and don't look back. Don't take his calls. It will hurt for a bit while you rebuild yourself but you're worth it.

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