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He changed his profile picture into him kissing a girl?
I met this guy online and we were kinda flirting (not proud of it since I usually don't trust many strangers online) but anyway I thought he was interesting and different because he gives sarcastic and witty remarks like I do but anyway after about 2 days of talking he just stopped. Then I texted him first and idk the way he typed changed-he seemed veeeery bored. Then after a few hours he changed his profile picture into him kissing this girl (it's in the title lmao). I'm not mad that he's kissing a girl, I just found it very rude. Should I just stop talking to him? Idk if I made sense anymore I'm just really weirded out and kinda pissed
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It's okay to be pissed, but let's talk reality.
The reality is, you met this guy online. You'd been talking for two days—and then he ghosted on you. It was clear he was less interested, and then you saw a picture that made you think he was into someone else.
It might hurt your feelings, but really, he didn't do anything wrong. You barely knew each other. He had a real life that was going on beyond text messages and chats. It doesn't sound like he made you any promises or commitments—you were just talking—and he was probably also talking to other girls. His photo change may have hurt your feelings, but it almost certainly wasn't directed at you, and he had every right to use that photo, or kiss some other girl. He didn't betray you in any way and it's not rude of him to go on living his life.
If you don't want to speak to him anymore, that is fine! You don't have to. You can be pissed at home things went, but you also have to take a deep breath and realize that just because you are pissed and disappointed, doesn't mean either of you did anything wrong. You were chatting with an almost-total-stranger online for two days. It was okay that you got your hopes up, and it's okay it didn't amount to anything.
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I can understand how you must be feeling, like someone played with your emotions. But you know what? You should be thankful to him to show the real him before it's too late and painful. So don't judge yourself over it. We all have done such things at some point, so no big deal. I would have just sent him a message saying "Thank you!" and just block him immediately. Him fooling around with you does not make you less worthy or stupid. However this is a good lesson for you to not put your emotions and heart in anything which cannot be proved to be real )) I am not saying that online dating is wrong or bad, but way social media and dating sites have grown, so is the crowd of people who make it a playing ground and scams. Rule of thumb would be not to get involved in anyone unless you meet them personally. If someone is avoiding to do so, it's for a reason and you need to be smart enough to understand that.
You don't need to be pissed off or beat yourself up for being silly. Relax and stop judging yourself. You may come across many more people like him in your life; not only online but in your real life, so get over it and move on with the lesson learnt ))
Good luck!
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