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losing interest?
i've been in love with the same guy for about 3 years. we've been dating for a little over a year. we've *lived* together for about 4 years.
i used to always look forward to him coming home. and i've never been more sexually attracted to a person as i am to him. but lately i've become almost bothered by his presence. idk if this is a fluke thing or if i'm seriously just not into it anymore. we haven't been fighting or anything, i'm just kind of bored i guess. we haven't had sex in two weeks. and i relish my alone time more than i do my time with him. i've felt like i was losing interest before,( and i know this happens a lot in relationships, especially when people live together,) but i've always found myself getting over it and feel like we're lovers and best friends again. but for about a week now i've been using any excuse i can to not see him. i feel smothered and trapped. we just signed another year lease on our apartment. i don't want to hurt him though, he's extraordinarily sensitive and can act like a little bitch sometimes. which is also bothersome. i need a man, not a girl. idk what to do. maybe it will change in a couple of days or something but for now, i just want him to leave me alone.
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I would almost be willing to bet the farm that within the past two weeks you have met someone you are comparing him to... The best advice I can give is to leave him immediately. He deserves better! Everyone deserves a partner who appreciates them, not someone filled with so much contempt that they would refer to the person who loves them as "a little bitch"! This man seriously needs to kick you to the curb and find a new room mate!
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You sound a little selfish to be quite honest. Have you ever considered how much he cares about YOU? and maybe hes just more open with his feelings because he really loves you so he feels he can show that side of himself to you and thats what open honest relationships are all about.
Its sounds like your not ready to be in a committed relationship at all because you cant think about anyone elses feelings but your own from one moment to the next and its just all about what you want no one else really matters. Just because a guy shows feelings doesnt make him "a little bitch" either. He sounds more mature than you to put it bluntly and maybe you should save him the energy and go find a guy that treats you like a complete dick because hes probably "more of a man"
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hello.. Judging by your paragraph, you really have seem to lost interest in your boyfriend. but if things keep going that way, you have to take care of yr feelings and make them happy. u cant live like this forever and neither can he. so what i suggest you do is break it off with him but if u don't want to then you have to work really hard to fall in love with him again.. its only a matter of decision but trust me the sooner the better... Good luck!
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