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My mother caught my looking at a picture of my celebrity crush
My mother caught me looking at my celebrity crush aand i'm very embarrassed because I was about to masturbate but then she came in my room and I didn't close the webpage and now she knows that I have a crush on this person. I'm 14 years old.
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I wouldn't be embarrassed as it is natural for both boys and girls your age to have crushes. It is also normal and perfectly healthy to masturbate. Using a picture of a crush or celebrity or even of some porn is also normal.
In fact even though parents tell you that masturbation is wrong or a sin they know it's not. The reason they tell you this is simple. We know once a child starts masturbating the feeling and the relief of sexual tension brought on by puberty the child is going to want the real thing. Most children start masturbating about the same time puberty hits which is way to young for actual sex. We also know that no one has ever gotten pregnant from masturbation or gotten an STD from it either.
Fact is we also know that about 85% of us masturbate. Us meaning parents and children of your age. When parents do it includes mutual masturbation as part of foreplay or singular masturbation as well. Yes your parent most likely still enjoy an active sex life. In a household of 4 it would mean 3 out of 4 of you masturbate.
Masturbation is not a sin and most organized religion condone the practice but preach differently to keep you as your parents want from experimenting with actual sexual activity.
If mom did realize you had a crush and were getting ready to masturbate to the picture she was probably relieved to know you were a normal child. Something she would never admit to you but take some comfort in knowing.
My suggestion is not to be embarrassed as there is nothing to be embarrassed about. In the future you should always have your door closed when in your room and ask your parents to knock before entering. You are of an age where you are entitled to your privacy just as they are and the courtesy of knocking and waiting to be given permission to enter. This of course is something to discuss with your parents.
Your parents have still have the right to enter your room when they feel they need to. The only difference is when you are occupying it. They should give you the right to your privacy due your age and knock before entering.
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