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did i brk my own hymen?


Question Posted Friday March 11 2016, 9:01 am

Guys i am 17. Today i hav been mastubating 4 a week or two now. Me n my bf r waiting 4 me to turn 18 n hav sex. Now today while i was masturbating suddenly my vagina everythin inside strted hurting like hell. I almost felt like i might die. When i took my finger out i saw some blood on it. I am due on my period so i thought it might b d period blood. It bleeded for about a min or two n it stopped. My pelvoc area is still hurting. Is it possible for me to mess up wid my hymen?


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Dragonflymagic answered Tuesday March 15 2016, 5:12 pm:
Its possible to either stretch out, or tear your hymen. It is also possible for women whose hymen has stretched out or been torn to get a scratch or tear elsewhere inside of her that bleeds and hurts too. But it shouldn't amount to much blood. Our bodies are well able to heal themselves and a female will see these kind of minor injuries at times throughout her sexual life time. My hymen was stretched out by toys before my wedding night so there was no ripping, no blood ever. I had only either been too rough on myself, or the husband in the midst of sexual excitement. Also, not having enough lube can cause the tearing injury, both to the gal as well as the guy on his penis. Some tears are too fine to see, like a scratch on the eye, another very sensitive area. And if you've ever had pollen or an eyelash scratch your eyes, then you know how it can irritate and hurt like hell until it finally heals on its own. If you are planning on having sex when you turn 18, then its best to see a Dr. before hand. I was a virgin before marriage and no sex til wedding night but I saw a Dr. for an exam before hand and to obtain a contraceptive. I highly recommend studyin on line the various sorts of contraceptives both hormonal and non hormonal ones. Most Drs. start out with recommending the pill so if you have a preferance, you can ask for something that the Dr. did not bring up. Also, in rare cases, a female could have a septate hymen, in which case instead of the extra skin around the inner circumferance of the vagina, its a strip of flesh going down the center creates two smaller entrances. This could depending on the two smaller openings be big enough for fingers and a tampon but not a penis, and sometimes, girls couldnt even get a tampon in or back out without a lot of pain. And then, everyone has a different level of pain tolerance and what they consider to be painful. So it could be minor and heal on own or an exam by Dr. be best...and I vote for the Dr. since you are going to require birth control. Don't count on condoms for birth control, its best more for STD prevention. Plus there are plenty of times the guy isn't wearing one during sex play, everything other than penis in vagina sex and live sperm can be transfered by either partners fingers to her vagina or precum from his tip being at the entrance even though not inside, If shes really wet enough, the sperm can live long enough in the combo of both her and his fluids to get inside her. Then its a matter if she's ovualating or not to become pregnant. If you dont want to become pregnant during your 1th year, then get on contraceptives dear.

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karenR answered Tuesday March 15 2016, 1:36 pm:
It is possible to break your own hymen. That may hurt for a minute or two when it happens. If it has been a while & you are still in pain, then something else may be going on. I suggest you see a doctor as soon as possible.

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