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Do you kiss on the first date?
Hey. So I'm Lea, and I'm a 14 year old girl, and I'm gay. I've recently started going out with this girl (she's 13). So we met online, but we've Skyped and frequently text. I've known her for a couple of months and we've been going out for just under a week (she asked me out). She lives about 30 mins away and we've scheduled a day to meet up soon. We've never met in real life so this'll be our first date. I don't have much experience dating, so would it be appropriate to kiss her on our first date? I know she's done sexual stuff before, but I'm still a virgin and haven't kissed anyone before so I'm really inexperienced. I'm also quite awkward so how can I tell that she also wants to kiss, without being too direct about it? I could really use some advice about it. Thanks, Lea x
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I can't say whether its any different for gays vs heterosexuals as I am not gay. But I would think some things in general are the same no matter what the sex or the age.
A must for wanting to kiss when meeting someone the first time, is being able to feel chemistry.To explain what I mean, if you kiss and it feels like kissing your mother, then its not romantic, but if you kiss and it feels like tummy somersaults and heart beats faster, then it is chemistry. You can't force chemistry to happen. You can meet and have lots in common and find her to be cute,, sexy even but then again this is young love and dating.
I have shared what adults will sense. As young as you are, you may not yet be able to sense and recognize this, probably one reason why lots of teen relationships don't last long.
Just see how it goes, if it feels like you have known each other all your life when you meet, then its a good sign that a kiss will be good, not bad. Adults usually end a date with a kiss.
I find it important from the start to know if I feel that chemistry. On a coffee date, we'd talk, even out to dinner and once dinner was over, before I got into my car the guy and I would give each other a kiss to thank each other for the time and it ended there if the kiss was bad. I had enjoyed some dates very much but when it came to the kiss, I decided against dating the guy. Of the kiss was really good feeling, it wasn't a short thing over, but would go on for a bit. hope this helps a bit.
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