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Didn't know what to type :S


Question Posted Friday March 4 2016, 1:08 pm

I'm turning 27 and honestly hadn't been in a relationship without disappointment,, the last one it was something different i really was into it .i even had big hopes that he could be the one because of the fact that his friend was in love with me and he was helping him to win my heart but at the same time he was in love with me too,i dont want to get in to the details long story,but my heart beat for him and the things lead to another they fought and i dont know what happened but suddenly we were together, we dated for two month it was amazing we had really good time together but he started to care less he started to act differently i mean he literally changed i know he loved me ,relationships are like that i know passion will be gone sooner or later but 2 months is really small period of time i mean i wanted that back i did everything but no use,so i told him and he was like "maybe because of the fact that you're mine im comfortable i dont have any fears to lose you" so maybe he was right but he kept that way and i wanted a break up and the fact that he was gonna travel for 2 month he didnt say anything and after 2 weeks he texts me and said it was really hard for me to say anything because i was in shock didnt know what to say but we're gonna talk about it when i come back and now he's here and we talked he said i can't do anything if you took your decision for break up,you dont want me to ran after you don't you,, i mean if he really thinks we shouldnt break up at least he tries to convince me the otherwise ,,although i think he doesnt care anymore ,after all he did to win me after he fought with his friend i dont know the real reason why he acts like this im losing it that i started to think it might be someone else..

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Dragonflymagic answered Friday March 4 2016, 2:52 pm:
Honey, you have some beliefs about relationships that aren't 100% true. And thats just the few you've listed. I am sure that may be more. Not picking on you hun but dating and relationships and knowing how to find the right one to be your life mate is a very serious thing in life and yet there aren't required classes to learn that as there are for math, reading, e tc...

My suggestion is that you start with reading some books about relationships. I even have an author, also a psychologist to recommend. I checked out one of her books from my library and was so impressed that I now recommend her alot. Its easy to read and she does write with humor too but to the point. This is the best way to gain the knowledge you seek and I am sure there won't be any confusion anymore. I am posting a link to her books offered at Barnes and Nobles so you can see all her books of which I read 'What Men say, What Women hear'. There are others that look real good as well. If your library doesnt have the book to check out, then I would suggest purchasing the one I mentioned and also another like 'The Man Manual: Everything You've Ever Wanted to Know about Your Man'. I wish you well dear in relationships and love.

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