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having crush on guy from school :) i know its long but please read it all
im girl, 3rd year in high school and i really like one boy in my school (he is in 4th grade in high school..we are at the same high school)..its my 3rd year in high school but i only noticed him when new school year started (september 2015) and i really like him and i thik of him every day....i only see him during breaks in hallway (since we´re not in the same grade).when I´m passing him i always look at him and sometimes he looks back.i dont know how to approach to him since we dont know each other and he is from different grade and he hangs out with people from his grade
so on friday in our school we were sending each other in whole school valentine messages .and i sent one to my crush (because im shy and i dont know how to talk to him)i wrote him that he probably doesnt know me and that i am seeing him at school in the hallway during breaks and i wrote him straight that i like him.and i wrote him only my name because my friend advised me to do so (and in each grade there are max 4 girls that have same name as me ).and now i dont know how is he going to find out that its me who wrote him that message (my friend advised me to smile at him at school and then he should figure it out that it was me)..but now we have a spring break till monday,and its hard for me to wait a week to do that (im really curious what does he think of the message..it first time that im looking forward to go to chool..i reall wish it was after spring break )what should i do ?should i text him on facebook that it was me or what ?? please help me :)
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You are getting advice from friends your own age with the same little amount of experience in such matters, or you can get advice here where the ages vary from teen to those old enough to be your grandparents and a great majority of those who answer often are the older people with more life experience.
I don't know yet if you prefer to try what your friend said to do: 'my friend advised me to smile at him at school and then he should figure it out that it was me'. You have the freedom to accept or reject advice and choice will always be yours whether to act upon any advice given or not. So do you think your friend gave good advice? Break will be over soon and you back at school. Do you want to do as she says and smile because you believe a smile will make him sure that it was you if he even was curious to begin with as to who it was? If so, then try that a while and you'll have your answer.
But for fun,Lets put this situation in reverse. Lets say this guy wrote me and told me theres a girl he always see but never talked to, not in same grade, the whole same story including sending you a valentine. So his friends tell him to smile at you. Telling him that doing the smiling is going to give you the clue that for sure it was him that wrote you a valentine. Would the smile in the halls as you pass each other by give you the clue it was him who sent one?
So if you figure out that passing smiles in hallways isn't getting you any where as fast as you'd like, write again, forget the valentine part of the story as it doesnt pertain. What you want is the ways to approach and start a conversation with and to let the guy know you are interested in him at least friends first and then see where it goes. When you are ready to do what those who have gone before you at the same ages and had success and are suggesting for you, then write back. good luck
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