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I NEED ADVICE ON A GIRL I LIKE!!!!
Hi my name's Nick and I have a friend who I really like, (for reasons that are pretty obvious let's just say her name is Les) but there also some complications. "Les" is different than most girls. I can't read her facial expressions like I can with most and she isn't intimated by my usual personality. Which is propably why i like her so much. But anyway, the problem I'm having is that like 3/4 of "Les's" friends are other guys! So i absolutely cannot tell what she thinks of me. Any advice on how to see if she's interested, and if so how to ultimatley ask her out? (I also feel i should mention that she likes to horseplay around me, like she sometimes takes my stuff and then throws it into the bushes just to give herself enough time to drop her backpack and chase me (in a friendly and joking manner of course) and just the other day she was grabbing me from behind and trying to make me fall over. Which I kinda like. I'm a Leo. I need to have someone that isn't affected by my outer shell. So... Any Advice?
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As long as you can feel secure as a male and not being jealous by other guys who interact with her, then all should be well. Some girls gravitate more to making friends with males than females as well as males who have more female friends than male ones. There is nothing wrong with that. Both my husband and I are like that so it is important that first off we both were self confident and confident in what we have together to know that neither is looking for a replacement.
In your case, there's no 'relationship' yet other than being school friends. She is definitely comfortable around you, an important thing in having a closer relationship than just friendship.
The question is whether she does all the things you say she does to you or around you and does the same with all her other guy friends. If so, that is part of her personality in how she interacts with ALL people. Otherwise, if its pretty much just you or only one other guy, then she's more interested in you or the one other.
So the thing to do is to ask her out yourself. Dont have someone else ask for you. Depending on your age, I am guessing, not HS age yet but i could be wrong. This means non driving teens and so going out together on a date is quite limited to more just hanging out together on a walk, at the local park, at each others homes. Her parents may have dating restrictions that she cant date until a certain age. You might want to find out after asking her, if her parents let her date. If not, the thing to try is to see if she would be allowed to have you come over when they are home, just as a school friend, not a boyfriend. Parents can get stuck on the term 'boyfriend' even if tho at your age, the most you'll be doing is hanging out as friends with the little bit of romance to it, like kissing and holding hands.
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hello my name is Tiffany I what actually Ask her the old fashion way basing on your situation paper and pen Write it if she likes you circle yes or no if she doesn't I don't know that's what I do if there was a guy in this situation you're in
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