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I'm delevoping a crush on a friend
I met this girl in 2014, we didn't really talk to each other until 2015, we still talk occasionally now in 2016 but I've just began developing a crush on her in 2016, and she's became best friends with my enemy, what should I do because I don't want my enemy to tease me about liking her? I'm already friends with the girl (not my enemy, the other one) so I think that will make her tease me even more?
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When we are young we often fear what others will think of our actions, afraid of teasing, of not being liked or accepted.
You say she's already someone you don't get along with, sometimes that can be simply having personalitys that clash. If she hated you so much that she'd want things to tease you about to try to make you miserable, then she would have already done so. She doesnt need you becoming a partner with someone to tease you about.
However, if she did, or anyone else ever teases you about that, the thing to remember is that you need to take the fun out of it for them so its no fun to tease you. People will tease once but if they dont see the reward they look for like you denying it or getting beet red and embarassed, or crying or saying "stop saying that" or some other reaction like that, then it is no fun for them. The thing to do if you respond at all is to acknowledge what they tease about with a smile and say something positive and wonderful like, "Yeah, we're dating now, you're really perceptive! So I guess I won't have to make a sign to wear that reads, "I am so and so's girlfriend.
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